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Life is too short to spend alone.. Friends first and see where it goes..

Female (64) looking for Male Calgary, Alberta, Canada

About me hmmm… Well, I’d probably smile and say hi to you even if I didn't know you and passed you on the street. That's just me. I believe in kindness, empathy, putting your phone away when around people and making time to listen to a friend. I tend to click best with men who are intelligent, confident and have a bit of a warped sense of humor.

I am a happy person and don't like being around negative people. I am very honest, loyal, open, young at heart and easily laugh at myself. I have a good sense of humor and always have a story to tell. I am non-judgemental, very giving, compassionate, sensitive but also extremely intuitive. I am also a little old fashioned in believing men should make the first move so if you say hi I will read your profile and I promise I will answer you. I still like my doors opened for me, chairs pulled out when I get to the table, and a guy that is willing to put his coat in a puddle so I don't have to walk in it.. okay maybe not that far, but I am sure you get my meaning. :) I am also a person that can be spontaneous and take chances. I have skydived, zip lined in the jungle in Panama, swam with stingrays and kayaked with the manatees so not adverse to a little adventure. I still have going up in a balloon on my bucket list so the person I am looking for needs to be a little bit of a daredevil :) I am looking for a real-life relationship and not an online one.

I am looking for that spark. Everything starts with a spark. I have nothing bad to say about any exes as I have learned from every relationship and would rather talk about something else anyway:). Widowers as I do read your profile before I respond I know you are widowed and I also assume you loved your wife. If you are still living in the past there is no room for someone new in your present. I am not a serial dater as I would rather focus on making one person happy so if you are then please don't message me as I am not into games. I am open and honest so looking for the same. Also if you are serving in Afghanistan and are a widower with one child. I am not interested. Since I have heard that story at least 50 times on Facebook take your scam somewhere else or at least try being original.. :) I am also not looking for FWB. I am not in a hurry to find what I am looking for as I would rather be alone than lonely in a bad relationship so I have no problem taking the time to get to know someone. I wish everyone the best of luck in their search and hope everyone finds that special person they are searching for.

Since I do look like my picture I expect you will too. If you don't you are buying all the drinks until you do.. :)

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageCanadian
Height5' 8" (173 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureSmile
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
Have PetsDog
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
Employment StatusFull-time

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports
Favorite movies typesAction, Comedy, Drama
Music typesRock, Pop
Reading selectionBiography, Fiction
HobbiesSports, Music, Internet, Dancing, Travel, Gardening, Computers, Shopping


SmokerSmoke regularly (5-10 a day)
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asFriendly
Sense of humorSlapstick
My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Clubbing / bars, Extreme sports, Going to a concert
Always wanted to tryGoing up in a balloon


ReligionNot religious
Attend religious servicesOnce a year
Goal in lifeTo travel more, to live life day by day and be happy.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerHonesty. Someone that is ready to try things and not living in the last relationship.
On the first dateGoing for coffee or sometimes just going to an event is fun even if we don't connect. Making memories is never a waste of time.


Enjoys playingFootball (American), Hockey, Swimming and Diving
Enjoys watchingFootball, Football (American), Golf, Hockey
Favorite teamToronto Maple Leafs