About me hmmm… Well, I’d probably smile and say hi to you even if I didn't know you and passed you on the street. That's just me. I believe in kindness, empathy, putting your phone away when around people and making time to listen to a friend. I tend to click best with men who are intelligent, confident and have a bit of a warped sense of humor.

I am a happy person and don't like being around negative people. I am very honest, loyal, open, young at heart and easily laugh at myself. I have a good sense of humor and always have a story to tell. I am non-judgemental, very giving, compassionate, sensitive but also extremely intuitive. I am also a little old fashioned in believing men should make the first move so if you say hi I will read your profile and I promise I will answer you. I still like my doors opened for me, chairs pulled out when I get to the table, and a guy that is willing to put his coat in a puddle so I don't have to walk in it.. okay maybe not that far, but I am sure you get my meaning. :) I am also a person that can be spontaneous and take chances. I have skydived, zip lined in the jungle in Panama, swam with stingrays and kayaked with the manatees so not adverse to a little adventure. I still have going up in a balloon on my bucket list so the person I am looking for needs to be a little bit of a daredevil :) I am looking for a real-life relationship and not an online one.

I am looking for that spark. Everything starts with a spark. I have nothing bad to say about any exes as I have learned from every relationship and would rather talk about something else anyway:). Widowers as I do read your profile before I respond I know you are widowed and I also assume you loved your wife. If you are still living in the past there is no room for someone new in your present. I am not a serial dater as I would rather focus on making one person happy so if you are then please don't message me as I am not into games. I am open and honest so looking for the same. Also if you are serving in Afghanistan and are a widower with one child. I am not interested. Since I have heard that story at least 50 times on Facebook take your scam somewhere else or at least try being original.. :) I am also not looking for FWB. I am not in a hurry to find what I am looking for as I would rather be alone than lonely in a bad relationship so I have no problem taking the time to get to know someone. I wish everyone the best of luck in their search and hope everyone finds that special person they are searching for.

Since I do look like my picture I expect you will too. If you don't you are buying all the drinks until you do.. :)